{"id":656,"date":"2013-12-14T12:27:34","date_gmt":"2013-12-14T10:27:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/?p=656"},"modified":"2022-10-24T22:56:28","modified_gmt":"2022-10-24T19:56:28","slug":"sabir-ve-tahammulun-sirri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/?p=656","title":{"rendered":"SABIR ve TAHAMM\u00dcL\u00dcN SIRRI"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"14<\/a>MARIFETNAME \/ SABIR<\/p>\n

\u00abEy \u00eem\u00e2n edenler, sab\u0131rla ve namazla Allah’tan yard\u0131m isteyin. Mu\u00adhakkak Allah sabredenlerle beraberdir.\u00bb (Bakara S\u00fbresi; 2\/153)<\/p>\n

\u00abVe sizi, biraz korku, biraz a\u00e7l\u0131k, biraz da mallardan, canlardan ve \u00fcr\u00fcnlerden yana eksiltme ile, andolsun imtihan edece\u011fiz. Ey Hab\u00eebim, sabredenlere m\u00fcjdele. Onlar, o kimselerdir ki, kendilerine bir bel\u00e2 geldi\u011fi zaman, \u00abBiz Allah’\u0131n kuluyuz ve yine O’na d\u00f6nece\u011fiz\u00bb derler. Onlara Rabb’lerinden ma\u011ffiret ve rahmet vard\u0131r. Ve i\u015fte onlar hid\u00e2yete ermi\u015f olanlard\u0131r.\u00bb (Bakara S\u00fbresi; 2\/155-157)<\/p>\n

\u00abOnlar ki, Rabb’lerinin r\u0131z\u00e2s\u0131n\u0131 kazanmak i\u00e7in sabrederler ve namaz\u0131 dosdo\u011fru k\u0131larlar, kendilerine verdi\u011fimiz r\u0131z\u0131ktan gizli ve a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a harcarlar. K\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc de iyilikle savarlar. \u0130\u015fte, \u00e2hiret saadeti onlar i\u00e7indir. (Ra’d S\u00fbre\u00adsi; 13\/22)<\/p>\n

Sab\u0131r, nefsi tela\u015ftan menetmektir. Sab\u0131r, nefsin nazlar\u0131ndan m\u00fcc\u00e2de\u00adle ile s\u0131yr\u0131l\u0131p uzakla\u015fmakt\u0131r. Sab\u0131r, nefs perhizine devam edip orada sabit kalmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Sab\u0131r ikidir. Biri, ilk bak\u0131\u015ftaki aldatmalara sab\u0131r g\u00f6sterir. Di\u011feri de, sevgiliden uzak d\u00fc\u015fmeye sabretmektir. Kalbe gelen musibet kadar da sab\u0131r gelir. Musibetlere sabretmek, en \u00fcst\u00fcn arma\u011fanlara kavu\u015fmakt\u0131r. G\u00fczel sab\u0131r, \u00e7ok kazan\u00e7lar getirir. Kalblerin sabr\u0131 ay\u0131plar\u0131n \u00f6rt\u00fc\u015f\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

Bollukta \u015f\u00fckredici, k\u0131tl\u0131kta sabredici of! Fel\u00e2ketlere kar\u015f\u0131 vakur, \u015fid\u00addetlere kar\u015f\u0131 da sab\u0131rl\u0131 ve diren\u00e7li ol! K\u0131zmakta a\u011f\u0131r davran! Sab\u0131r, mus\u00eebet\u00ee \u00f6rter. Sabreden, bel\u00e2lardan \u0131zd\u0131rab duymaz. Yine bel\u00e2ya sabreden kazaya raz\u0131 olmu\u015f olur. R\u0131z\u00e2 \u0130le sab\u0131r \u00e7ok kolayla\u015f\u0131r. Sabredene bel\u00e2 tatl\u0131 gelir; sab\u0131rla, ek\u015fi olan helva gibi tatl\u0131 olur. Sabr\u0131n sonu zaferdir. \u00eem\u00e2n\u0131n esas\u0131 sab\u0131rd\u0131r, \u0130sl\u00e2m’\u0131n asl\u0131 da r\u0131z\u00e2d\u0131r. E\u011fer Allah’\u0131n, \u00fczerine bel\u00e2lar ya\u011f\u00add\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcrsen kesinlikle bil ki, seni \u00eek\u00e2z etmi\u015ftir. Ni’met buldu\u011fun za\u00adman \u015f\u00fckret, bel\u00e2ya \u00e7att\u0131\u011f\u0131n zaman da sab\u0131rl\u0131 ol! Musibet an\u0131nda tela\u015f ve panik, musibetten daha \u015fiddetli ve daha kaybettiricidir. Tel\u00e2\u015f, sab\u0131rdan daha fazla zorluk \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r. Sab\u0131r, elem ve bel\u00e2lardan yak\u0131nmay\u0131 b\u0131rakmak\u00adt\u0131r. Sab\u0131r, bel\u00e2y\u0131 r\u0131z\u00e2 ile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmakt\u0131r. Sabredene ni’met ile k\u00fclfet ayn\u0131 \u015feydir. Sabredenin ba\u015f\u0131 esenliktedir. Sab\u0131r, g\u00fczel bir al\u00e2mettir. Bel\u00e2 ise, Hakk’\u0131n vergisidir. \u00d6yleyse, bel\u00e2dan tel\u00e2\u015flanmak, fery\u00e2d edip yak\u0131nmak do\u011fru de\u011fildir. Bel\u00e2 g\u00fczeldir, zira, Allah’\u0131n ezel\u00ee bahsidir. Sab\u0131r, \u00f6yle kut\u00adsal bir \u015ferbettir ki, sa\u011fl\u0131k ve esenlik sebebidir.<\/p>\n

Kulun kalbini Mevl\u00e2’n\u0131n huzurundan ziyade ba\u015fka \u015feylerle me\u015fgul eden d\u00f6rt \u015feyden \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fcs\u00fc; fel\u00e2ketler, musibetler ve bunlardan tel\u00e2\u015fla\u00adn\u0131p pani\u011fe kap\u0131lmakt\u0131r. Bunlar\u0131n \u00fcstesinden ancak sab\u0131rla gelinece\u011fini yukar\u0131da i\u015faretlemi\u015ftik. Sabr\u0131 gerektiren b\u00fct\u00fcn yerlerde \u015fu iki \u015fey i\u00e7in sabretmek l\u00e2z\u0131md\u0131r: \u0130lki, sab\u0131r, ib\u00e2det ve huzura kavu\u015fmak say\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Zi\u00adra, \u0130b\u00e2det ve huzurun ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131 ve zemini sab\u0131r ve tahamm\u00fcld\u00fcr. \u015e\u00f6yle ki, sab\u0131rl\u0131 olmayan kimse ib\u00e2det ve huzurdan hi\u00e7 bir \u015fey alamaz. Zira, bu d\u00fcnya zorluk yeridir. Madem ki, insan b\u00f6ylesi d\u00fcnyada ya\u015famaktad\u0131r, onun \u00e7e\u015fitli fel\u00e2ket ve musibetlere d\u00fc\u015fmemesi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. \u0130nsana gelen bel\u00e2lardan, ki\u015finin zevcesi, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131, yak\u0131nlar\u0131, karde\u015fleri ve dost\u00adlar\u0131nda bulunan; fak\u00eerlik, ihtiya\u00e7, yokluk, ayr\u0131l\u0131k, hastal\u0131k, \u00f6l\u00fcm gibi bel\u00e2larla birlikte, kendinde bulunan \u00e7e\u015fitli hastal\u0131klar, a\u011fr\u0131lar, tasalar, gamlar, elemler, vesveseler, korkular ve vehimler gibi musibetlerdir. Yine, \u00e7evre\u00adsinde bulunan; halk\u0131n onunla olan d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00e7eki\u015fmesi, onu \u00e7ekememeleri, ona s\u00f6vmeleri onu \u00f6ld\u00fcrmeleri, onu ay\u0131plamalar\u0131, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamalar\u0131, onu ihmal etmeleri, ona g\u0131ybet etmeleri, ona iftira atmalar\u0131 ve onu utan\u00add\u0131rmalar\u0131 gibi musibetlerdir. Mal\u0131nda bulunan \u0130se; \u0131sl\u00e2h\u0131, tedb\u00eeri, korun\u00admas\u0131, telef olmas\u0131, elden \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131, yok olmas\u0131, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 gibi musibetler\u00addir.<\/p>\n

Bahsetti\u011fimiz bu bel\u00e2lar\u0131n her birinin \u00f6yle zehirli bir sokmas\u0131 ve ate\u015fi vard\u0131r ki, onlar\u0131n ac\u0131lar\u0131 ve yak\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u015fiddet ve zahmetleri de ayr\u0131 \u015fey\u00adlerdir. \u0130\u015fte, bu bel\u00e2lar\u0131n hepsine sab\u0131r ve tahamm\u00fcl etmek gerektir. Ki, te\u00adl\u00e2\u015f ve panik kulun kalbini ib\u00e2det ve huzur i\u00e7in gerekli rahatl\u0131ktan menet\u00admesin. Nitekim \u015f\u00f6yle denildi; D\u00f6rt t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u00f6l\u00fcmle \u00f6lmeyen ib\u00e2detin zevkini ve huzurun tad\u0131n\u0131 alamaz. \u0130lki, beyaz \u00f6l\u00fcmd\u00fcr ki, a\u00e7l\u0131kt\u0131r. \u0130kincisi, siyah \u00f6l\u00fcmd\u00fcr ki, nefsin u\u00e7ar\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmakt\u0131r. \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fcs\u00fc, k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00add\u00fcr ki, nefsin hevesine uymamakt\u0131r. D\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fcs\u00fc de, ye\u015fil \u00f6l\u00fcmd\u00fcr ki, ka\u00adzan\u0131n geli\u015fidir. Kim bu d\u00f6rt \u00f6l\u00fcme sabredip tahamm\u00fcl ederse, o kimse, ib\u00e2detle huzura nail olur.<\/p>\n

Sabr\u0131 gerektiren ikinci hususa gelince; o da sab\u0131rda olan iki cihan ha\u00adzinesidir. O haz\u00eenenin bir k\u0131sm\u0131; kurtulu\u015f, r\u0131zka ve isteklere kavu\u015fmak ve d\u00fc\u015fmanlara galip gelmek, akranlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda \u00f6nde gelmek, g\u00f6n\u00fcllerde taht kurmak, kendine z\u00eenet ve ayd\u0131nl\u0131kt\u0131r; Allah’tan rahmet, muhabbet ve \u00f6vg\u00fcye mazhar olmakt\u0131r, Allah kat\u0131nda y\u00fcksek derecelere ula\u015fmak, \u00fcs\u00adt\u00fcnl\u00fcklere nail olmak ve hesaps\u0131z m\u00fck\u00e2fatlar kazanmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Allah, kuluna bir saat sab\u0131r i\u00e7in bunca l\u00fbtuflar ba\u011f\u0131\u015flar. Demek ki, d\u00fcnya ve \u00e2hiret iyili\u011fi sab\u0131rdad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Nitekim Hz. \u00d6mer (R.A.) \u015f\u00f6yle buyurdu:\u00a0 \u00abM\u00fc’minin b\u00fct\u00fcn iyili\u011fi bir saat sab\u0131rdad\u0131r.\u00bb<\/p>\n

Sabr\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fcklerinden sana bu kadar\u0131 bile yeter ki, Allah kendi Ki-tab’\u0131nda sabr\u0131 pek \u00e7ok y\u00f6n\u00fcyle \u00f6vm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr. \u0130\u015fte bunu bir ganimet say\u0131p, bununla s\u0131fatlanmaya gayret et ki, zorlukta kolayl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bulup ebed\u00ee kurtulu\u015f\u00adla sevinmi\u015f olas\u0131n.<\/p>\n

Sabr\u0131n en g\u00fczeli de, fel\u00e2ketin vakit ve miktar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmektir ki, o ne zaman\u0131ndan \u00f6nce, ne de zaman\u0131ndan sonra meydana gelir. Ne eksik, ne de fazla olur. Tel\u00e2\u015f ve panikte bir fayda yoktur. \u00dcstelik zarar ve keder \u00e7oktur. Zira, i\u015fler her zaman vakitlerine ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn her\u015feyi yap\u0131p eden yaln\u0131zca Allah’t\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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