{"id":440,"date":"2013-10-10T11:40:44","date_gmt":"2013-10-10T08:40:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/?p=440"},"modified":"2013-10-11T04:24:10","modified_gmt":"2013-10-11T01:24:10","slug":"marifetname-az-konusmak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/?p=440","title":{"rendered":"M\u00c2R\u0130FETN\u00c2ME \/ AZ KONU\u015eMAK"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/10-ekim.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-441\" alt=\"10 ekim\" src=\"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/10-ekim.jpg\" width=\"600\" height=\"275\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/10-ekim.jpg 600w, http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/10-ekim-300x137.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Bu zaman s\u00fck\u00fbt zaman\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130nsan, iki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck \u015feyin esiri olmu\u015ftur; biri y\u00fcrek, di\u011feri de dildir. Ger\u00e7i insan\u0131n s\u00f6zlerinde baz\u0131 kerametler vard\u0131r, fakat, bel\u00e2lardan kurtulu\u015f, susmaktad\u0131r. Dil, insan\u0131n \u00f6l\u00e7e\u011fidir. Dil bir arslan gibidir, zincirinden kurtulmas\u0131 zararl\u0131d\u0131r. Susmak, onurun elbisesi ve ya\u015famaya yetecek bir ni&#8217;mettir. Konu\u015fmad\u0131k\u00e7a s\u00f6z daha etkili olur. Ko\u00adnu\u015ftuk\u00e7a da s\u00f6z\u00fcn etkisi gider ve ona h\u00fckmedemezsin. Az konu\u015fmak, azardan korunmakt\u0131r. Kimin sessizli\u011fi uzun olursa onun kadri g\u00fczel olur. Kim her zaman insanlar\u0131n ay\u0131plar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rterse, onun da ay\u0131plar\u0131 \u00f6rt\u00fcl\u00fcr ve kalblerin sevgilisi olur.<\/p>\n<p>Kim g\u0131ybet ve ko\u011fuculuk ederse, o b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlar\u0131n nefretini kazan\u0131r. \u00c7ok konu\u015fmak, ay\u0131p ve utan\u00e7, dili tutmaksa, \u015feref ve onurdur. Dilin s\u00fck\u00fb\u00adtu emniyet ve kalbin s\u00fck\u00fbtu da irfan sebebidir. Dilin tehlikesi \u00e7oktur, zira o, hedeften \u015fa\u015fmaz ve hat\u00e2 etmez bir oktur. Di\u015f, ta\u015f; dil, \u00e7akmak ve s\u00f6z ate\u015ftir ki, s\u00f6yleyen ahmakt\u0131r. Bu ate\u015ften s\u00f6z\u00fc dinleyen de, ya pamuk d\u00fckk\u00e2n\u0131, ya da barut deposudur. \u015eu h\u00e2lde, pamuk ve baruta \u00e7akmak \u00e7akan div\u00e2neden ba\u015fka bir \u015fey de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u00dc\u00e7 \u015fey, b\u00fct\u00fcn fel\u00e2ketleri \u00fczerine \u00e7eker: Biri \u015faka, di\u011feri mizah, \u00f6b\u00fcr\u00fc de bo\u015f l\u00e2ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>G\u0131ybet edenin ve ko\u011fuculuk yapan\u0131n azab\u0131, \u015fiddetli olur. \u0130nsanlardan ve onlar\u0131n Rabbinden de uzak olur. \u00c7ok konu\u015fmak dostlara zarar verir, yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131k ve b\u0131kk\u0131nl\u0131k do\u011furur. Fazla l\u00e2f, ay\u0131plar\u0131 meydana \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r ve kalb-lerin d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 harekete ge\u00e7irir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Kim, ac\u0131 konu\u015fursa, ondan dostlar\u0131 nefret eder. Ahbab\u0131 g\u0131ybet, kor\u00adkun\u00e7 bir rezalet ve her y\u00f6nden a\u011f\u0131r bir utan\u00e7t\u0131r. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n en ak\u0131ll\u0131s\u0131, k\u0131s\u0131r \u00e7eki\u015fme semtine u\u011framayan ve ahmaklar\u0131n i\u015fkence olan konu\u015fmalar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 suskunluk s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fmayand\u0131r. Sorman\u0131n kadri, bir ni&#8217;metin k\u0131yme\u00adtinden daha fazlad\u0131r. Ho\u015f bir kelimenin faydas\u0131 onu s\u00f6yleyenedir. E\u011fer bir s\u00f6zde abartma ve sun\u00eelik varsa, kurtulu\u015f onu s\u00f6ylememektir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Mizah, dalkavukluk \u00e2fetidir ve yap\u0131lan iyili\u011fi ba\u015fa kakmak da c\u00f6mert\u00adli\u011fin fel\u00e2ketidir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bu zaman s\u00fck\u00fbt zaman\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130nsan, iki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck \u015feyin esiri olmu\u015ftur;&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":441,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,19,13],"tags":[194,62,73],"class_list":["post-440","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel","category-hadisler","category-ibrahim-hakki-hz","tag-az-konusmak","tag-erzurumlu-ibrahim-hakki-hazretleri","tag-hadis","wpcat-1-id","wpcat-19-id","wpcat-13-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/440","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=440"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/440\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":442,"href":"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/440\/revisions\/442"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/441"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=440"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=440"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.erzurumname.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=440"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}